Busy Barmitzva's

Sybil here, and WAY tired, Saturday was soo long, seriously i took like 2 naps today and i kept spacing out. My mom was like i better not ever drink because i'd take a week to get over the hang over :P I probably would too. But i never plan on drinking because it's totally descusting. and i never want to end up like my dad, i mean anything that can do that to someone is evil. Short and simple.
Anyways back on subject it was long. So i'm here to tell you all about it! Friday i went shopping for my dress, then my mom woke me up at 11 and was like SYBIL! where's your dress and skarf, and started spazzing, and i was really tired all ready i mean i hadn't slept so well the night before. So FINALLY i get to bed at like midnight, so she insists on waking me up early too! like seriously 5 am SYBIL! time to get up!!! Seriously?? anyways. i got up, not that i was given much of a choice, i took a shower got ready, curled my hair... well no, streightened my hair, curled the bottom, and then put a can of hair spray in it to get it to stay, but hey it looked nice, actually Justin insisted on telling me more than a few times :P HEY not that i mind! :D
So then at 9:40 exactly Cori came and picked me up, Carley ( his dog ) apparently really liked my, but i was used to it thanks to hailey and cassey, and bill..... and Magey, and well ALOT of cats. So no big, We went to pick up richard, argued about the address for a while... well no they argued i sat and watched, justin had never told me the address so i had no clue. Cori ended up being right. Then we got there and some lady was like are you jewish.... ummm not that im aware of. and like gave us booklet things.... they actually didnt do a thing to help. just kind of gave us descriptions on what USUALLY happens... like gee thanks! so helpful. Megan waS there so i talked to her, it ended up being that Charita didnt come so once again i was the only girl. but at some points i talked with Megan and i got along with most of justins family, especially his grand parents, Alexa, and his other cousin with the biyfriend from england... Anyways we arent there yet. So we sat near the back, cause we couldnt really follow so we didnt want to intrude. Then like part way through a few other peoples joined us. But then we found out that ALL of justins family is INSANELY TALL!!!! we couldnt see a thing! and whenever i tried looking between them they'd move so i couldnt see again, you know i just gave up. Basically im not going to give you a full description of the ceremony cause.... well i couldn;t follow most of it, and well its all a jumble anyways. Basically there was a lot of singing in hebrew, talking, opening and closing or arcs... ( or so the hebrew book with the english translations we were reading from stated. though i didnt see any arcs) umm LOTS of hebrew chanting, did i mention the chanting? lol it wasnt that bad, it actually sounded pretty cool, at one point they had this awesome corale going, though i thing it was an accident, and the girl made a nice harmony. Basically i learned a few things.... who am i kidding i learnt like the WHOLE time! Like for instance that they read backwards. and that apparently it takes 10 minutes to chant 4 lignes, also i think i figured out what symbol beleive is.... also that justin CANNOT sing, he told me, but now i know. :P also that megans dad ( not too sure of this ) works there... not sure exactly of his title.... also that the thing justin had to carry around the room was heavy, or looked like it. and that people poke him with the books as he walks by, not too sure on what that was about either.... and finally i learned that whenever you asked justin about anything hebrew or like envolving it, he tells you to ask his dad ( lol like im going to strike up a conversation with his dad!)
Near the end of the ceremony Justin said this very funny very good speaks, koodo's to him. and then read this hebrew story that was REALLY interesting, though i doubt i actually got the meaning behind it all it was really kool! ( and the reason i can say this was because of the english translation!) After a while i got really good at following hebrew siging and stuff by estimating the amount of time it takes for them to sing a symbol... and reconizing repetitions. It was cool. And must i say that Justin looked very handsom in his nice black suit? :D Then we ate lunch, peoples left, i helped pack up and stuff, and HA even got to show off my french skills!! thank you caterers! seriously the amount of food left over, i dont know how they plan on finishing it all! so we went to Justin's house, he changed into very hot sweat pants ( lol they were funny) we "watched" jonah ( his brother) play tony hawk the video game and later on halo. then Justin changed back into his suit, though this tie with a black under shirt. We went helped set up ( ish) and welcomed peoples, and can i say that when you hang around the barmitzva boy you get alot of pictures taken of you! like seriously maybe theres a possibility of justin actually getting a good picture of himself. He's sending me some of me and him later, ill post them. We hung out with weird mexican music, and talked and all the guys got play boy bunny tatoo's! they were funny. and justin got himself a characatcher ( how do you spell that??) and he looked sooo funny!!! Cori kept it ( said he was going to hang it on his wall , bad pun... just realized )
So ya.... it was fun, dinner was good, justin exploded his taco, not really sure how that happened, we ate soup and stuff. then Justin did the candle lighting ceremony where you thank a bunch of peoples. WE GOT TO LIGHT ONE!! lol go friends!! woot! lol... Jermy made a speach and Cori made a toast ( it was soo funny) i like cori now, not so evil after all :P Then ricahrd, patrick, and Cori went up to the piano and started playing and singing they were actually REALLY good. seriously they were better than the DJ's and their sad break dancing ( actually they had very good break dancing, just bad music ) another reason cori isnt that bad, he went up and break danced ! lol it was funny. I danced with justin though i've got to admit its hard to dance in high heals and well i discovered something ELSE ! Justin is very bad at dancing too!!! like seriously i didnt even bother teaching him waltzing cause he couldnt do the swaying thing right! it was very pathetic, but hey i like him anyway! i don have a clue why, and actually ricahrd asked me that.... actually no asked is putting it lightly, he bugged me for about 6 hours, trying to figure out WHY i liked him, and im not actually sure.... i just..... DO! lol. thats enough for me, he;s funny, nice on certain subjects ( like me ) hes sweet, and good looking ( actually my mom wouldnt stop commenting about that after..... actually that will be on the sun post ( later ) cause she has a theori on why i like him but im not there yet. So yeah. not too great at dancing, but still it was nice. Sandy , his neighbour, insisted on taking like 5 pictures of us... hopefully some turn out. again with the, ill post them. and ya, i talked to a bunch of his cousins, got along great. it was cool.... actally me and justin got SO many pictures taken of us! it was actually kind of funny. Finally thenight was over, actually by this point i was soo tired i was having "Jen moments" ( my friends will get that ) every five seconds!! Justin ekpt askind if everything was all right, and it was... aparently i look depressed or something , but hey i wasnt just spacey... :) It was great thouhg, Then my mom came, and it was time to go home, i got home straight to bed and i was OUT!
Then today i wake up at like 11. eat, go back to bed, wake up at like 1. Clean my room, do my homework, talked with my mom, sat outside, read this book called call me hope which reminds me of my own like soo much!!! exepct that its even worse... well not anymore but before... i have a theorie on that.... maybe i should just make a seperate post called my current theories! LOL Schwa would get a kick out of those! though she's aware of most of them, like my time loops theorie... Well lets not get into that now, right now i want to tell you my mother's theorie:
This one doesnt have a name because well it's not mine, so it's not like i can name it. but apparently im insecure, but i dont show it like everyone else, im insecure but i use that to my advantage most of the time.... this is the part that was totally like omg how dense can you be... she then proceeded on saying that she didnt know why i was insecure maybe it was kids at schoool (no SHIT!!! but again with not anymore) and then saying that it souldnt possibly be at home! NO cause you calling me stupid and ugly on the daily basis doesnt do anything like that at all!!! ( seriously if you want to know how bad my mom is read call me hope by gretchen olsen my mom's worse, and well my dad just ignores me, like im not even there. For that read the schwa was here, by Neal Shusterman. both very good books though both short. anyways back on topic... so she thinks that the reason i like justin, as well as other reasons, is his arrogence, because it makes me feel safe and gives me no reason to be insecure because the arrogence isnt directed at me and more towards other topics... ( seriously its possible, i mean i alwasy feel way more relaxed when im around him... as well as other reasons... and he is arogant.... in his own swave manner.... maybe my mom actually has a point! ) well whatever the reason i am happy, so it's a plus..
GothGirl xox
PS i am actually going to make a theorie post and the theories in it are :
time loop theorie
the gifted theorie ( which i just found out might be cancelled out because my dads a possible gifty... )
schwa theorie ( not about schwa's but SCHWA the person of my friends)
Depression theorie
and possibly others... but at the moment i cant remember any more :P
PPS this is going to be insanely long but hey its been a busy weekend.